Although different people will give you different answers and there really is no right answer, I have shared what I believe the answer to this question is along with other factors to consider when trying to answer it.

The short answer is, no. The long answer is, it depends on your child’s ability and personality.

In my experience, kids under the age of three haven’t really developed the attention span yet to sit through an entire lesson. However, 3-year-olds are capable of learning simple songs and even starting to read music.

The best way to find out if your kid is ready for lessons is to visit a few studios and watch their classes. Observe them and take note of whether or not they're enjoying the classes and why this is. Ask yourself these questions: Is my child enjoying this? Are they enjoying this because of the instructor? Because of the toys around them? Because of the kids around them? Because of the incorporation of music? These questions along with others should help you guide your decision on when would be an appropriate time for your child to start taking music lessons.

The great thing about kids is that they’re naturally curious and that they enjoy exploring new things. Learning how to play an instrument can help children develop important skills that will truly last them a lifetime. Music will also help them develop discipline, independence and most importantly, confidence.

Parents often wonder if their child is too young to start lessons, and it’s a fair question. As someone who has played piano my whole life, even into my adult life, I know how important it is not to rush kids when learning to play an instrument. I personally believe that the answer is that there is no right or wrong time to begin learning music, but there are some factors you should consider such as Interest and Motivation, Physical Development, and Personality.

Interest and Motivation

Music is a great way for parents to introduce the concept of a hobby or interest to their kids. Music is a fun and easy activity kids can participate in allowing them to expand their creative horizons and express themselves. Once kids start learning music, particularly when learning to play an instrument, they feel motivated to keep learning. This also teaches kids that in order to truly achieve something, such as learning an instrument, they not only need to be interested but also motivated. If your child has expressed interest in learning an instrument, then it’s worth getting them started on lessons. However, if once they’ve started classes they don’t seem to be engaged or motivated, then it may be time to reevaluate.

‍Physical Development

A lot of instruments require physical strength, coordination and stamina for a successful performance. When starting to consider which instrument would be a good fit for your child, these are all factors that should be considered, otherwise you could be wasting both time and money. For example, the cello can be a heavy instrument and requires one to have it lean on them, sometimes for an extended period of time. These are things you should be mindful of as difficulty with an instrument physically, can lead to a child feeling mentally frustrated with the instrument, therefore resulting in a decrease in confidence and motivation. However, just because a child displays that they are unable to play an instrument during one stage of their life, does not mean that they will be unable to play it at another, so keep trying!


Some children are really outgoing and enjoy being in front of an audience - a quality that makes for a successful performer over the long term. This is extremely important to pay attention to, as a child that is more shy may be better off playing an instrument that doesn’t require public exposure (such as the piano). In addition, music is a discipline that requires practice - something all parents want their children to do! But playing an instrument isn’t just about practicing. It’s also about following directions, focusing on goals and developing self-discipline - all essential skills for growing up. As a result, taking into consideration the personality of your child when picking an instrument is crucial, as it is a key indicator of success.

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